All posts tagged with advice

How to write a great online dating profile.

The two most important things in life are finding the job you want and finding the love you want. Yet, most people don’t take their dating profiles anywhere near as seriously as they take their LinkedIn profiles and resumes. I  know. I write both for a living. I also scan dating sites all time. In doing so, I see online dating profiles that are filled with nonsense. I’ve read endless narratives about weight loss, breakups and medication challenges. I even… read more

Online dating. The sizzle and fizzle.

Kevin Kokoska, a friend of “trysweettalk” offered to do a guest post for this week’s dating blog. I love what he’s written. It’s a refreshingly insightful and honest male perspective about maturity, self-reflection, accountability and class.  Women and men can learn from it. Thanks  Kevin for contributing your work, as well as your wonderful point of view. A first date, a hug, a second date, an awkwardness, a week of mutually uninspired text messages, silence. This is where it usually ends,… read more

mature dating sites

I hope you enjoy this guest post from a friend of mine who just launched a great new site. Thanks Nick! Online dating sites have become an everyday part of life for those who are single or for those simply looking for a new partner. There’s now a complete array of dating sites on the net, from the naughty to the religious.  In fact, it seems that dating sites cater to every aspect of human society these days, and one… read more

Kate Houston on NPR’s Marketplace.

Why would NPR’s Marketplace be interested in online dating? Because it’s all about marketing yourself. Kate Houston talks about how ad techniques are what you need to stand out and compete online. Please note: prices and levels of service have changed since this broadcast. http://www.onlineprofilewriter.com/wp-content/uploads/Marketplace-Morning-Report-04_50-for-November-23-2010.mp3

I love a good rant, but on a #dating profile?

Seeing a rant on a dating profile is wrong in the same way that Denis Leary writing Hallmark greetings would be wrong. The two don’t fit. Believe me, I too think that women with doggie strollers, men with fake tans, and serial daters are great feed for a rabid ranter but save it for friends or blogs. Dating profiles are for attracting suitors. Rants, while hilarious, are not the new sweet nothings.